Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Stanley


This is the newest member of the Guarisco family. His name is Stanley and he is a Ragdoll kitten. Awwww, you might be thinking that he is so cute. You could be thinking along the lines of my oldest and dearest friend Charles who says, "get a dog." But there is more to this story than meets the eye. Over time, I will tell you the entire story. For time sake, I will just give you a snippet today.

Joe Guarisco does not like cats. Growing up he disliked cats so much that stories circulate about unkind things he did to tease cats. I will tell you that many of these stories come from his own mouth.

After we had been dating for over a year, I started talking about getting a kitten. I had not wanted to get a pet until I was settled and felt I could provide a safe and secure place for a pet. For seven years, my job took me all over the Southeastern part of the country. I moved five times in four years. Finally, I landed in Houston, Tx. I made the decision that this would be my home. I would not be moving to another state anytime soon, God willing of course.

Back to the subject at hand, Joe and I began talking about possibly getting married one day. Each time, I asked if we could have a kitten. Each and every time his answer was the same, a resounding NO. He didn't like cats. We had already decided down the road that we would adopt a dog. I tried to put Norman Rockwell thoughts in his head about a puppy asleep at his feet, a fire roaring, wine glasses clinking and a little ball of fur curled up in between the two of us. I was quickly told a Norman Rockwell family we would not be, at least for the time being.

Joe decided it was time to propose. That is another great story, for another time, which includes my sweet Markie Mark. The revelant part for this story is Joe brought me to the computer one evening and showed me a video slide show. It was of a trip or a memory created from each month we had dated over the last two years. I thought it was sweet. Then he says, "There are a few more photos. I hope these represent the things to come in our future." (SIDE NOTE: We were leaving the next day for Washington, D.C. where I had no doubt he was going to propose. I figured this video montage was apart of our week of love.) Hopefully, he doesn't read this blog or he might throw a pillow at me for showing you his sweet and sentimental side :).
I tend to get off on a tangent. Sorry.

The last picture of the post was of a Grand Champion Ragdoll father and mother. They were beautiful and just what I wanted my kitten to look like one day. Joe says to me, "If this doesn't prove my love to you then I don't know what will. We are getting a kitten in two months. It's being born in a few weeks and will come home with us when it's old enough."

I found out he had done months of research to pick out the perfect parents for the type of seal-pointed baby I wanted. I told Joe I was worried he wasn't going to be sweet to it and it's not fair if he isn't equally loved by both of us. Joe grinned and said, "Well I got to pick him out, so I think that will help me love him." I also let Joe name him. He is now as excited about Stanley as I am. Please don't tell Joe I said that becuase he is a tough Uncle Fireman you know.

The kicker to the story is the breeder says of all the kittens in the litter, Stanley likes to nestle right next to her husbands head on his pillow. Come September, our bed might be a little more crowded than sweet Joe Guarisco intended.

Friday, May 14, 2010

Guarisco Family Mother's Day

Madison and Riley needed to run off some energy before dinner. I took this opportunity to capture some sweet brother and sister moments.

































We are trying so hard to get a good picture for our family wedding table.






Jack loves his Great Grandmother.


We celebrated Mother's Day with Joe's entire family at Nick's. It was a great day. The only thing that was missing was my own mamma.










Foto Fights Fires

Uncle Fireman Joe was so nice to let us crash the Houston fire department for a tour. I will note that all the guys were much more cooperative than Uncle Fireman Joe himself.
Uncle Fireman Joe, Foto and Cindy taking a moment to look at all the equiptment.

Joe and Foto

Foto loved the fire station. I am so thankful for Houston 38 and their hospitality. Ok, lets be honest, they didn't have much of a choice. The boss had orders from his girlfriend to make sure Foto was able to see all the station had to offer. I will tell on myself and say that once I left one of the guys said, "Captain you might be the boss here but we know who the boss is once you go home."


The guys pulled out all the saws and jaws of life equipment for Foto.





Foto had the opportunity to dress as a fireman himself. He said, " Maybe I will come to America and fight fires. I think I would like this job."





This is the rookie who was coaxed into putting on his entire uniform in 90 degree heat just for Foto. Thank you so much. I appreciate it.
A little back story. If your house catches on fire in Chad here is what happens. First, you have to round up enough money to buy diesel. Then you have to buy the diesel. Next, you take the diesel the fire station and fill up the firetruck. The firetruck will then proceed to your house and put out the fire. The ironic point is by the time all these tasks are fulfilled your house has burned down. God Bless America and our brave firefighters, especially, Uncle Fireman Joe (according to Holdyn.)





Can you imagine being fifty-eight years old and never had the opportunity to travel outside your community? I would like you to meet Foto. He is my new favorite person. Foto is from Chad, Africa. My uncle worked for Exxon for four years in Chad, Africa. The person who cared for his every need was Foto. In the words of my uncle, "Foto risked his life multiple times for me." I will also tell you that Foto spoiled my uncle to pieces. My uncle is now being retrained by his loving wife to pick his clothes off the floor and put them in the laundry hamper. My uncle has been able to return the favor. Actually, in Foto's world I would tell you my uncle has given him a priceless gift. He flew Foto to America for a few weeks. Culture shock anyone? Foto loves America. He is totally overwhelmed but taking it all in with grace and very good manners, I might add. We had a crawfish bowl for Mothers Day. My favorite part of this picture is the verbal communication. When we were finished taking photos, Foto said to me, "You tell the boys what to do and they listen to you." I had such a laugh. Welcome to America Foto!
This is Kaylee, my cousin, Starr, who is married to Kenny, Foto, my new favorite Chadian, me, and my Aunt Cindy, who I love more than pizza and cookie dough.


Kaylee and I are chilling in the Texas sun.

Kaylee and her favorite sister-in-law, Starr.




Foto is testing out his first bite of Texas shrimp. I think he loved it!





This is my cousin Kenny and his wife Starr. They have a little girl that will be born in August. We are all so excited.





My aunt was showing Foto how to boil shrimp, corn and potatoes. They were delicious.




These are the boys once again following my instructions to smile for the camera. It was such a special day and I am so glad to finally meet the man that means so much to our extended family. Also, I want to extend a special HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my Uncle Mikey who I love dearly. Next up I will post about Foto's first trip to a fire station and how they put out a fire in Chad, Africa.